- All children adjust to challenges; some need extra help to adjust or cope. 
- Because of the nature of development, children more easily communicate and express how they feel through play, not as much through words. 
- Play therapy provides toys and materials so that children can communicate what they cannot say in words. 
- The play therapist creates a safe relationship through and connection through non verbals and through verbal responses. These therapeutic responses are crafted to reflect a child’s feelings, facilitate their decision making and creativity, to encourage, to set limits, and to enlarge the meaning of a child’s metaphors through play. 
- Children recreate in play the life experiences that are part of their challenges. 
- Releasing feelings with a safe, caring, understanding adult helps children feel better. 
- Children’s play evolves until they gain understanding/comfort over their conflicts/worries. 
- Children learn to express themselves in positive ways, to control their behavior, to make decisions, and to act responsibly. 
- They change their personal view of life events, enjoy their interactions with others and feel increased self esteem. 
- Parents meet often with the therapist to express concerns, talk about their child’s behavior at home/school, and receive feedback. 
- Parents may be asked to join the play sessions and will be given guidance as to how to help the child or respond to the child. 
- Children need some degree of privacy regarding what occurs in therapy. 
- There is a possibility that challenges may “get worse before it gets better”; this is not unusual nor does it mean the therapy is not going to be effective. 
(*not an actual client pictured with Kelly above)
